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September 26, 2016 By Jennifer Weitz Leave a Comment
Filed Under: Desserts, Recipes

Spicy Chilean Chocolate Cake

Spicy Chilean Chocolate Cake

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I'm Jennifer, a foodie and wino that's learning to cook healthy(ier). Waiting with hope in God's timing for building our family, and supporting others who have to walk the same road of infertility. My husband and I can't stop/won't stop planning trips and traveling to new places. Thanks for joining me on my adventures! Read More…

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Hi hi hi hi hi hiiiiii ⠀ Well you know when soci Hi hi hi hi hi hiiiiii
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Well you know when social media just seems like a little too much... that's been me lately. But I'm coming out of hibernation to say I'm back!
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Dayna has been doing and saying so many new things, the spring outdoor winery season is starting to ramp up here in Virginia, and we have some exciting travel coming up soon! Can't wait to share it with you all.
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Sadly, this photo was not taken by me, but by my husband who went on a hiking trip with a friend last weekend to the Santa Barbara area in California. We rarely do any traveling without each other so can't say I wasn't jealous of the views and beautiful landscape! He definitely has to bring me back to the Santa Barbara wine area someday. He brought me back a delicious bottle of Grenache that I can't wait to try!
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Happy Easter! He is Risen! ⠀ "I have been crucif Happy Easter! He is Risen!
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"I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Galatians 2:20
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Jumping into this #traveltuesday with a t r a v e Jumping into this #traveltuesday with a t r a v e l announcement!!
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We're going back to Croatia in May! I have been holding off because of the uncertainty of border openings and because of how many times we have changed this trip and updated our flights. But, it's finally looking like it will actually happen. We are very excited about getting to go back to Europe!
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Our plan is to stay in the Dubrovnik area for about 5 days, then hop a plane up north, hang out in the Istria region again for 6 days, before stopping at the Plitvice Lakes and spending the last two days in the city of Zagreb.
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We'd love to hear any suggestions you have, especially for the Dubrovnik area since that will be new to us! We probably won't be jumping off any seaside cliffs with a toddler in tow 🤣 But we will have a car so we will be pretty mobile. Sadly we won't have time to visit Split or the "mid" region of Croatia - will have to save that for another time!
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IF YOU'RE HAVING CHROMOSOME PROBLEMS I feel bad fo IF YOU'RE HAVING CHROMOSOME PROBLEMS I feel bad for you, son
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I got 99 problems but an extra chromosome ain't one 👏
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Happy World Down Syndrome Day! 💙💛
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Every year on March 21st we celebrate those who have been gifted with an extra chromosome, a third copy of their 21st chromosome. Therefore 3.21 is the chosen day!
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We love showing Dayna off to the world because she portrays the truth that Down syndrome is just a part of who she is, but it doesn't define her. She has her own unique abilities and strengths and although she has many challenges that face her too, she has risen to them and with therapy, hard work, and determination we know she will do well! She has become an independent firecracker who gives us so much joy every day (and anxiety 😆). We can't wait to see the person she will become!
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Many thanks to @alilsomethingextra321 for creating this awesome shirt for Dayna's 3.21 celebration this year!!
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#downsyndromeawareness #changingthefaceofbeauty #morealikethandifferent #wouldntchangeathing #instagood #parenthoodafterinfertility #lifeisbetterwithyou #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #specialneedsmom #specialneedsparents #momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlersofinstagram #picoftheday
Things that make me happy... ⠀ x my crazy toddle Things that make me happy...
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x small hints of spring weather⠀
x this goat's milk caramel
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Along with adorable baby goats, @georgesmillcheese also has some delicious products! I'm not usually a caramel fan...but this is more like caramel pudding...smooth and perfect for apple-dipping! Thanks to @catleahlin for introducing it to me (or maybe I shouldn't thank you 🤣)
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Watching the sunrise at the point on Rio Grande, P Watching the sunrise at the point on Rio Grande, Puerto Rico 🌅
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Only tropical weather, my man, and the promise of breakfast right afterwards could entice me to be up for the sunrise not one but two mornings in a row! We had a whirlwind less than 2-day trip to Puerto Rico a few weeks ago, and the resort where we stayed had a perfect spot to watch the sunrise. We took a beautiful walk along the beach to the end of the point, where we had a very windy view both mornings all to ourselves. The first morning was mostly clear and the second we got the cool colors of the sun slowly peeping up through the clouds.
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I really hope this resort stays such a great deal on Hyatt points because we would love to go back next winter! Check out my story Highlights for more info!
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We have some fun travel plans coming up (with toddler!! 😄) that I will share soon (hopefully once we know for sure it's happening 😆)
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Welcome March, a day late... ⠀ March reminds me Welcome March, a day late...
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March reminds me of our orchid plant, since I usually associate orchids with winter, but it can easily transition to a spring flower too. March is like that, having one foot still in winter and one foot in the spring. I'm wishing for warmer days even more than usual this year. I feel like nothing makes you long for warmth and not having to wear coats, mittens, and hats quite like having a rambunctious toddler who needs lots of outside time!
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I know there are probably quite a few more cold days still ahead, but this month brings the hope of spring - even if it's just on the calendar - and that is enough for today.
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#spring #springvibes #springiscoming #tuesdayinspiration #thehappynow #momentsofmine #prettythings #loudouncountyva #orchids #instagood #picoftheday #photooftheday #momsofinstagram
FIRST DAY OF PRE-K! ⠀ Don't mind me, just sittin FIRST DAY OF PRE-K!
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Don't mind me, just sitting over here wondering how my baby became old enough to have her first day of preschool! She started today going to her special ed preschool program two days a week. I, of course, had a hard time sleeping last night and have already cried multiple times, but she was happy as a clam at drop off. She didn't even look back as she was led into the building by a stranger! She's social and loves being around other kids, so I know she will do well. But along with the regular anxieties of a parent, I have other worries too. Will anyone understand her version of sign language? Will she be gentle with the other children? How will the in-class therapy go?
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All that to say, if you have a moment over the next couple of days, say a prayer for me! 😆
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#downsyndromeawareness #morealikethandifferent #wouldntchangeathing #instagood #parenthoodafterinfertility #lifeisbetterwithyou #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #specialneedsmom #specialneedsparents #momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlersofinstagram #picoftheday
Apparently it's #nationaldrinkwineday??? ⠀ Gotta Apparently it's #nationaldrinkwineday???
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Gotta love all of these very random celebration days! (This is not to be confused with National Wine Day 😆) I'm throwing it back to this bottle of @revalationvineyards Viognier that we had in December, mainly because I realized I never posted this pretty picture! I love Virginia Viognier and this one did not disappoint. We paired it with risotto, Provencal chicken, and asparagus. What are you drinking tonight to celebrate this obviously very important day? 😄
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Hi hi hi hi hi hiiiiii ⠀ Well you know when soci Hi hi hi hi hi hiiiiii
⠀
Well you know when social media just seems like a little too much... that's been me lately. But I'm coming out of hibernation to say I'm back!
⠀
Dayna has been doing and saying so many new things, the spring outdoor winery season is starting to ramp up here in Virginia, and we have some exciting travel coming up soon! Can't wait to share it with you all.
⠀
Sadly, this photo was not taken by me, but by my husband who went on a hiking trip with a friend last weekend to the Santa Barbara area in California. We rarely do any traveling without each other so can't say I wasn't jealous of the views and beautiful landscape! He definitely has to bring me back to the Santa Barbara wine area someday. He brought me back a delicious bottle of Grenache that I can't wait to try!
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#santabarbara #santaynezvalley #santaynezwinecountry #travel #familytravel #travelpic #travelphotography #lifewelltraveled #traveladdict #travelmoments #travelmemories #traveler #imisstraveling #instagood #discoverunder10k #momentsofmine #thehappynow #wanderlust #keepexploring #travellikealocal #theworldshotz #beautifulplaces #beautifuldestinations
Happy Easter! He is Risen! ⠀ "I have been crucif Happy Easter! He is Risen!
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"I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Galatians 2:20
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#easter #easter2021 #resurrectionsunday #mommyandmeoutfit #matchingmommy #springvibes #upsyndrome #t21love #theluckyfew #extrachromosomeextracute #ilovemyextrachromosone #homiewithanextrachromie #nothingdownaboutit 
#downsyndromeawareness #morealikethandifferent #wouldntchangeathing #instagood #parenthoodafterinfertility #lifeisbetterwithyou #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #specialneedsmom #momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlersofinstagram #picoftheday
Jumping into this #traveltuesday with a t r a v e Jumping into this #traveltuesday with a t r a v e l announcement!!
⠀
We're going back to Croatia in May! I have been holding off because of the uncertainty of border openings and because of how many times we have changed this trip and updated our flights. But, it's finally looking like it will actually happen. We are very excited about getting to go back to Europe!
⠀
Our plan is to stay in the Dubrovnik area for about 5 days, then hop a plane up north, hang out in the Istria region again for 6 days, before stopping at the Plitvice Lakes and spending the last two days in the city of Zagreb.
⠀
We'd love to hear any suggestions you have, especially for the Dubrovnik area since that will be new to us! We probably won't be jumping off any seaside cliffs with a toddler in tow 🤣 But we will have a car so we will be pretty mobile. Sadly we won't have time to visit Split or the "mid" region of Croatia - will have to save that for another time!
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#croatia #croatiatravel #premantura #premanturacroatia #premanturabeach #cliffjumping #travel #familytravel #travelpic #travelphotography #lifewelltraveled #traveladdict #travelmoments #travelmemories #traveler #imisstraveling #instagood #discoverunder10k #momentsofmine #thehappynow #wanderlust #keepexploring #keeptraveling #travellikealocal #theworldshotz #beautifulplaces #beautifuldestinations
IF YOU'RE HAVING CHROMOSOME PROBLEMS I feel bad fo IF YOU'RE HAVING CHROMOSOME PROBLEMS I feel bad for you, son
⠀
I got 99 problems but an extra chromosome ain't one 👏
⠀
Happy World Down Syndrome Day! 💙💛
⠀
Every year on March 21st we celebrate those who have been gifted with an extra chromosome, a third copy of their 21st chromosome. Therefore 3.21 is the chosen day!
⠀
We love showing Dayna off to the world because she portrays the truth that Down syndrome is just a part of who she is, but it doesn't define her. She has her own unique abilities and strengths and although she has many challenges that face her too, she has risen to them and with therapy, hard work, and determination we know she will do well! She has become an independent firecracker who gives us so much joy every day (and anxiety 😆). We can't wait to see the person she will become!
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Many thanks to @alilsomethingextra321 for creating this awesome shirt for Dayna's 3.21 celebration this year!!
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#wdsd #wdsd2021 #worlddownsyndromeday #downsyndrome #upsyndrome #t21love #dontbesorry #iamable #shouttheirworth #theluckyfew #extrachromosomeextracute #ilovemyextrachromosone #homiewithanextrachromie #nothingdownaboutit 
#downsyndromeawareness #changingthefaceofbeauty #morealikethandifferent #wouldntchangeathing #instagood #parenthoodafterinfertility #lifeisbetterwithyou #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #specialneedsmom #specialneedsparents #momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlersofinstagram #picoftheday
Things that make me happy... ⠀ x my crazy toddle Things that make me happy...
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x my crazy toddler⠀
x small hints of spring weather⠀
x this goat's milk caramel
⠀
Along with adorable baby goats, @georgesmillcheese also has some delicious products! I'm not usually a caramel fan...but this is more like caramel pudding...smooth and perfect for apple-dipping! Thanks to @catleahlin for introducing it to me (or maybe I shouldn't thank you 🤣)
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Brb gonna go eat some more
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#georgesmillfarm #georgesmill #farmtotable #farmtofork #loudouncounty #loudouncountyva #loudounlocal #visitloudoun #loveloudoun #insideloudoun #loudouneats #novaeats #locoeats #virginiawinecountry #thehappynow #momsofinstagram #momentsofmine #instagood #food #foodphotography #foodie #feedfeed #goatsmilk #goatsmilkproducts #caramel #caramelapples
Watching the sunrise at the point on Rio Grande, P Watching the sunrise at the point on Rio Grande, Puerto Rico 🌅
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Only tropical weather, my man, and the promise of breakfast right afterwards could entice me to be up for the sunrise not one but two mornings in a row! We had a whirlwind less than 2-day trip to Puerto Rico a few weeks ago, and the resort where we stayed had a perfect spot to watch the sunrise. We took a beautiful walk along the beach to the end of the point, where we had a very windy view both mornings all to ourselves. The first morning was mostly clear and the second we got the cool colors of the sun slowly peeping up through the clouds.
⠀
I really hope this resort stays such a great deal on Hyatt points because we would love to go back next winter! Check out my story Highlights for more info!
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We have some fun travel plans coming up (with toddler!! 😄) that I will share soon (hopefully once we know for sure it's happening 😆)
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#puertoricogram #puertorico #riograndepuertorico #travel #travelpic #travelphotography #lifewelltraveled #traveladdict #travelmoments #travelmemories #traveler #imisstraveling #instagood #discoverunder10k #momentsofmine #thehappynow #wanderlust #keepexploring #travellikealocal #theworldshotz #beautifulplaces #beautifuldestinations #sunrisephotography #sunrise #tropicaldestination #thursdaymotivation
Welcome March, a day late... ⠀ March reminds me Welcome March, a day late...
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March reminds me of our orchid plant, since I usually associate orchids with winter, but it can easily transition to a spring flower too. March is like that, having one foot still in winter and one foot in the spring. I'm wishing for warmer days even more than usual this year. I feel like nothing makes you long for warmth and not having to wear coats, mittens, and hats quite like having a rambunctious toddler who needs lots of outside time!
⠀
I know there are probably quite a few more cold days still ahead, but this month brings the hope of spring - even if it's just on the calendar - and that is enough for today.
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#spring #springvibes #springiscoming #tuesdayinspiration #thehappynow #momentsofmine #prettythings #loudouncountyva #orchids #instagood #picoftheday #photooftheday #momsofinstagram
FIRST DAY OF PRE-K! ⠀ Don't mind me, just sittin FIRST DAY OF PRE-K!
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Don't mind me, just sitting over here wondering how my baby became old enough to have her first day of preschool! She started today going to her special ed preschool program two days a week. I, of course, had a hard time sleeping last night and have already cried multiple times, but she was happy as a clam at drop off. She didn't even look back as she was led into the building by a stranger! She's social and loves being around other kids, so I know she will do well. But along with the regular anxieties of a parent, I have other worries too. Will anyone understand her version of sign language? Will she be gentle with the other children? How will the in-class therapy go?
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All that to say, if you have a moment over the next couple of days, say a prayer for me! 😆
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#downsyndrome #upsyndrome #t21love #shouttheirworth #dontbesorry #theluckyfew #extrachromosomeextracute #ilovemyextrachromosone #homiewithanextrachromie #nothingdownaboutit 
#downsyndromeawareness #morealikethandifferent #wouldntchangeathing #instagood #parenthoodafterinfertility #lifeisbetterwithyou #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #specialneedsmom #specialneedsparents #momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlersofinstagram #picoftheday
Apparently it's #nationaldrinkwineday??? ⠀ Gotta Apparently it's #nationaldrinkwineday???
⠀
Gotta love all of these very random celebration days! (This is not to be confused with National Wine Day 😆) I'm throwing it back to this bottle of @revalationvineyards Viognier that we had in December, mainly because I realized I never posted this pretty picture! I love Virginia Viognier and this one did not disappoint. We paired it with risotto, Provencal chicken, and asparagus. What are you drinking tonight to celebrate this obviously very important day? 😄
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#revalationvineyard #viognier #virginiaviognier #vawinetogether #virginiawinecountry #virginiavine #youcansipwithus #womenwhodrinkwine #wines #wino #vino #winegeek #wineaddict #winelove #winetime #sippingwine #wineenthusiast #instawine #winelovers #adventuresinwine #virginiawinery #winesofvirginia #vawine #virginiawine #vawinery #thehappynow #instagood #foodandwine #foodandwinepairing
I love you more than all the stars in the big, wid I love you more than all the stars in the big, wide sky.
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I love you bigger than the whole, wide universe.
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I love you longer than the birds can fly.
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I love you wider than the big, blue sky can reach.
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I love you higher than the sun and the moon in the sky.
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I love you deeper than the widest, biggest ocean.
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Just know that you are....deeply loved.  Xoxoxo
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[a friend of a friend who is a fellow DS mom sent me a book with these lyrics shortly after Dayna was born, and I've always loved it!]
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#advocatelikeamother#upsyndrome #t21love #shouttheirworth #dontbesorry #theluckyfew #extrachromosomeextracute #ilovemyextrachromosone #homiewithanextrachromie #nothingdownaboutit 
#downsyndromeawareness #morealikethandifferent #wouldntchangeathing #instagood #parenthood #parenthoodafterinfertility #lifeisbetterwithyou #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #specialneeds #specialneedsmom #momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlersofinstagram #picoftheday #mommyandme #mommyandmeoutfit

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