Thanks for visiting my site. I’m 30 years old and live in Northern Virginia with my husband, Caleb, and our two cats. We met in college and were married in October 2009. My passions are cooking, traveling and discovering new places, food and wine, Washington Nationals baseball, and sanctity of life issues. But more than anything, we want to blessed with a family. But that process hasn’t been easy for us or gone the way we planned, and we are learning to trust God during this difficult time of waiting. God has given me a heart for other couples who have to walk this same road, and is helping us to praise Him even in this “unexpected reality.”
For more info on our interests and our infertility journey, read below. Want to know why I chose “Unexpected Realities” and the history of the site? Head over to the Domain section.
Our travel-bug was first sparked when we went to the Costa del Sol in southern Spain and Gibraltar for our honeymoon in October 2009. After that, we knew that traveling would be a priority for us. In November 2011 we went to Cancun, Mexico; in August 2012 we traveled to Budapest and Vienna; in August 2013 we went to northern Italy, including Verona, Vicenza, Venice, Milan, Florence, and Montepulciano; in July 2014 we went to Thessaloniki and Sarti, Greece; in August 2015 we traveled to Portugal with friends to Porto, Nazare, and Lisbon; in May of 2016 we celebrated my husband graduating from his master’s by going to the Mosel Valley in Germany, Reims and Paris in France, and a stopover in Reykjavik, Iceland; in December 2016 we went to Avignon and the Provence region in France for Christmas. This doesn’t include our domestic travel that we have done together, including Sonoma County, San Francisco, and San Diego, CA, Denver, Boulder, and Colorado Springs, CO area, Nashville, TN, and Naples, FL and southern FL/Miami, and the travel that we have done separately.
We have a couple crush on Kara and Nate, a married couple from Tennessee who are vlogging across the world and have a goal to travel to 100 countries by 2017!
We are open to all types of destinations, but our travel philosophy is generally 1) finding the best deal, and 2) locations known for great food and wine. We absolutely love Rick Steves and follow his guidebooks for most of our European destinations.
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Food and Wine
One of our passions that we share together is good food and wine. Our traveling has given us an appreciation for international food, which has translated into our cooking done at home. It has also led to discovering new grape varietals and wanting to learn more about how grapes are used and grown. Locally, the Virginia wine scene has become progressively better over the last five years, and we love to visit new establishments and discover what winemakers are accomplishing as the wine industry grows.
My husband and I have been TTC (trying to conceive, for you non-infertility-lingo folks) since June 2013. We did multiple diagnostic tests between the end of 2014 and 2015 and were diagnosed with unexplained infertility. In November of 2015, we did our first IUI cycle, which ended in an early miscarriage. The next four cycles in December 2015, January, October, and November 2016 were negative. In July 2017 I was diagnosed with slight endometriosis. We are currently on a break from treatment.